I (40 f) and my husband (50m) are getting a divorce. It has been over a year that I filed for divorce because he has cheated on me in the past, he prefers alcohol and his friends and I was verbally abused. Well soon after leaving my X, I started dating a wonderful man that adores me. We have been dating for 8 months now.
We’ll I found out my X Husband (we are still going through the divorce) is dating a married woman. At anytime I would not give a shit who he sleeps with, but I found out this married woman created a fake Instagram account to follow me and stalk my page. She also created a page to follow my now boyfriend and also looked up his job, address, linked in profile and sent it all to my X. I found out who she was and found out she was married.
So I called her husband and told him about the affair she is having with my X, and asked him to tell his wife to stop stalking me and my new boyfriend. Well, I think he now left her for sleeping with my X for almost a year. My X is now saying I am to blame for ruining that man’s life and that I should have never called him. He takes no responsibility for sleeping with a married woman. AITAH for calling the husband, because I was upset she was looking me and my newfriends info?
But here’s where it gets weird:
A few days after I called the other woman’s husband, I received a call from a strange woman. She said she was a friend of the woman my ex was having an affair with, and she wanted to meet me. I agreed, not knowing what to expect.
When we met, this woman wasn’t angry or upset. Instead, she seemed really grateful. She explained that she had suspected her friend was having an affair for a while, but didn’t have any solid proof. My call not only confirmed her suspicions but also gave her the courage to leave an unhappy marriage.
It turned out that this woman had been unhappy in her marriage for years. She felt trapped and unappreciated. She had been thinking about getting a divorce, but she was scared to start over. My call was the catalyst she needed to make the decision.
We talked for hours, sharing our stories and bonding over our shared experiences. We realized we had a lot in common, and we quickly became friends. She even introduced me to a few of her friends who were also divorced and looking for love.
I was surprised by my newfound friendship. I never expected that calling my ex-husband’s fling’s husband would lead to me meeting such an amazing person. But I was so grateful that it did.
As for my ex-husband, he just got angrier and angrier. He couldn’t believe that I had “ruined” his relationship. He kept blaming me for everything, from the divorce to the woman leaving her husband. But I didn’t let him bother me. I knew I had done the right thing, and I was happy with my new life.